But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. With localized medical news and in-language editions. I knew that when I met him. See where it goes. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else.
I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. He is absolutely, hands-down my favorite human being on the planet. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock. Is he willing to, nay, interested. I am very independent and have my own life my own career and do not need my partner to be with me all the time. However her husband joined the church a few years after their marriage. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. The Mormon culture has mastered the forked tongue. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow.
You love a medical guy. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old.
Only the racist comments about why it was enacted have been disavowed. I am a something male. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult.