I believe strongly that I was meant to marry my spouse. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. That is the million dollar question. You need to repent and change. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. She might not realize how important it is to compromise. Modest dressing is the best policy here.
Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. At 30, you just give up. Finally, the decision of whom you marry is really between you and God. Consider yourself above many things.
The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. It doesn't help to know that he is terrible at being alone. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. Such beliefs make the girls confident about being women. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since. I went in thinking "oh, we can definitely do this. If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom. I don't think you "dodged a bullet" but I do think new residents change Other wives told me my husband would "come back" but we are still in the training so I can't tell you whether that is completely true or not. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. I am trying to figure out how to go on in life and discover myself again.
Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract. Pretty alarming how unsophisticated so many presumably well-educated people's expectations are of marriage. And right at that moment when I'm about to tell him this, and give him some kind of ultimatum, I hesitate. I met this girl a while ago and we really hit it off. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. God will help you both work this out.