Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. For instance, I am okay with the us not seeing each other very often part. Love in Different Languages. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule. If you don't want your "golden ticket" of the good life, then give me your golden ticket. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. I was lucky with my TBM.
All he says is that it wouldn't change the amount of time that he works. Help answer questions Learn more. Best to all of you, and may God Fate help us all.
But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. I haven't talked to him about it yet because I was hoping things would change once we dated for awhile and his feelings for me deepened. Like any woman I am a Medical Assistant I sometimes question myself and ask myself what I would do if "unfaithfulness" came across. I'm so glad you mentioned some of the things that I have been suggesting to my boyfriend for some time, but he has been skeptical about. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market. I do not contact my gf every day unless they are online.
I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools. Otherwise, happiness can be found in any relationship. Keep me posted, please. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically. If you have children how will they be raised. That is speaking from my own relationship. This also means giving her something specific to do. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness.