This is not about either of you individually. Then, do any of the above morsels of advice matter. My doctor husband also has a daughter from a previous marriage who he travels to see every other weekend. A few years ago I ended up in a wheelchair. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple.
I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. It is not something that should be taken lightly. Those will make her think. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion.
I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. I don't know any other doctor's wives. Hi I have read all your comments and although I am not married to a Doctor my dad was a Doctor and I think marrying a Doctor is no different to marrying any man who works with his own ambitions. Of course, arguments happened because I felt neglected at times step 1 and 2 studying or he left dirty laundry in the bathroom. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. Go on dates on days other than Sunday.
And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious.