Slow, lazy sex on a rainy Sunday morning or tried-and-true sex positions that get the job done are necessary for a satisfying sex life, IMHO. Where instead running through your usual angles, you want something a little… different? Sure, the sex positions you always use might be a little easer—at least, easier than contorting yourself into a position that looks like it belongs in an advanced-level yoga class and trying to sync up with your partner so you can both get pleasure during the complicated deed.
3. Doggy Style
SEX POSITION: THE OTTOMAN EMPIRE
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg.
1. The Arch Position
Some things in life are better on repeat: Friends , perfectly sunny beach days, your trusty white manicure. Your sexcapades, though? Definitely not one of them. Even the hottest spark in the bedroom needs new sex positions to stoke the flames from time to time—otherwise things get boring, fast. In short, your brain craves newness, and especially for women, your brain is very involved in your excitement and satisfaction. Note: While many of these directions reference male partners, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone. Do It: Near the edge of a bed or bench, rest on the hip and forearm of one side and press your thighs together. Your partner stands and straddles you, entering from behind. Why: Keeping your legs pressed together during this sex position allows for a tighter hold on him as he thrusts.
Bring on the next position challenge, please! Instead of resorting to your go-to moves tonight, whip out one of these crazy sex positions for an orgasm you've never, ever, experienced before. Note: While many of these directions reference "you" as the receiving partner, these positions can be assumed by just about anyone. How to: Lie back and have your partner sit facing you, with your legs crossing over each other to form an X. Why it's great: This is the only "ex" you'll be glad to run into. Also known as the "Crisscross," this crazy sex position requires slow, intimate movement. And you can help your partner go deeper by holding their hands as he thrusts. How to: Lie on your back with your legs raised and folded over so that your ankles are on either side of your head, while your partner squats and penetrates you. Why it's great: Fair warning: Your neck may get a cramp, but for a great orgasm , it's worth the risk.