Be direct and get your needs met. He also wants to have kids soon since I am already The dilemma I have now is: I do not know how would our relationship shape up, after marriage, assuming everything goes fine. If he is luck to be off call during the weekend, I would sleep most of the weekends away to make up the sleep deprivation.
No hard feelings, is not his fault, I said yes when he proposed based on the life wee had at that time, my fault for not doing some re search and find out how is really when you are a register or in the training programme. Sometimes not even a quick text most of the time. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding. If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush.
I really wish that I can figure out how to balance the demands of his family and our life together and make everyone happy - I think it is going to be a long road ahead, especially considering that his practice is local to our families. We try to have a 'date' night although at the moment it is about once a month. Maybe it won't be a big deal. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. Be open and talk about your ideals. This I knew before we married and accepted. They must refrain not only from sex, but also passionate kissing or similar physical contact, or any act that arouses such feelings. This happened to me, and it took me forever to get out of the cult.
Thank you for this advice!. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. If you really need me, you better believe I'm going to be scrambling to find others to cover my patients so I can leave, but it's going to take some time to get things straight at work first. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. A lot of shared hobbies, interests, life goals.