By the time you are done, you'll have all of the basics down and will have the framework to know what to ask next without any confusion. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest.
Learned by me in time and tears. Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either. If you do not have a lot of time together, make every second count. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. We had our first child about a year into the relationship.
Mine was in California, back in the 70s. Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. I would do it all over again and thank my lucky stars that I found this man, that he loves, and that I love him.
If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. Ask her rhetorically if she would dump her religion for her true love. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do. All parent-child relationships do. Easily found in most hospital lobbies. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised.