What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. You are a good person and she can see that. Instead, I found someone outside the cult and we've been married almost 32 years She's looking for a dedicated priesthood holder who will take her to the temple. What do they all do from 8am-2. It's a heart-wrenching story. Not one little bit. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. Anyways, good luck, I hope it works out. Consider also the evolving perspective of the potential husband.
Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. At what age do you baptize. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. How do you really feel about that. Why not ask him where he wants the relationship to go. But is it the path that will make you the happiest. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum.
Finally, it is a very tight-knit community and despite efforts to insulate you from conversion-minded missionaries, you will be exposed to a lot of people that think, like this woman does, that atheists are without a moral compass. We tried discussing his list a few times, but it only ended in arguments. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people.
So it is going to be over anyway. It MAY be true that she will not marry him unless he converts. I have been married for 2 years now and I'm concerned that if we dont work something out soon, it will only get worse as he dives into his profession even further. It's all about timing, and you're in two different places. My husband, regardless of religious affiliation, is a beloved son of our Heavenly Father who is very much worthy of my love, affection and dedication. I guess I was just hoping there was way for it to work. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself.