It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church. I feel like I have finally found a sisterhood with a few brothers as well of people who know how I feel and what I deal with on a daily basis.
Not one little bit. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion. I have no sympathy for people like you.
Is he willing to, nay, interested. I have been looking for a support group on facebook but couldn't find one so I have created one. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things. Should I marry him. That thing literally never shuts up. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. For example,is it reasonable to expect sex 1x a week. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. This I knew before we married and accepted.
After our child was born, I can say that my resentment of my husband started to grow and overshadow the respect I have for what he does. Real love just happens. Mormons have a well-known code of health, called the Word of Wisdom. But you will benefit if you can help him maintain his strength. It is a decision he has to come to on his own - hopefully all sped up when he looks around at his current dating pool and eating way too much McDonalds. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week. Talk about issues with Jehovah's Witnesses etc.