The point of a date is to get to know someone better. I suppose it depends on your personality. The kids are so involved and I am busy with them but I long for my husband to work less. Never seen it happen. He has always had a tremendous caseload and often grueling call schedule.
It really has been helpful. We agree on honesty and kindness, it doesn't matter what inspires us to pursue that. I have to day that I totally agree!.
I really admire all of you here, who are married but live a very lonely live. With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. They nicely include all the pictures we grew up with on how the book was translated and admit that isn't how it happened. And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs. I know he loves me with all of his heart. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy.
That was enough for him. If she can't put you before her religion then you need to walk away. I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor. Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell.