Yet others are really great human beings. Once when I saw how hurt my children had become due to his lack of interaction with them. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff.
My family supported me in this. With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. I dated a doctor who was into me and saw me frequently. I'm not complaining about the sex, but sometimes it prevents me from getting to know him better when we don't share any other bonding activities or get a chance to really talk. He's a good man.
I look back the 13 years with such sadness and loneliness; I was extremely busy and had no time for myself or others. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. It's satire, but this is all stuff you may hear at Thanksgiving dinner. Almost everything is complicated. I have no sympathy for people like you. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. If not watch it. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me.
We've been going on dates and acting somewhat "couple-ish" for a few months but haven't assigned any labels to our relationship. My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable. One small thing to add here. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. So good to find this I am married to a Dr with 2 young kids. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. Intimacy is pretty much gone.